Happy Easter and Stuff

Happy Easter. Happy Passover. Happy Spring.


We had a beautiful, warm Easter Sunday. Our brunch outing continued with a walk down to the town landing and people watching. There was a man with a serious binocular. I was just one. One eyepiece, one lense. Mounted on a tripod. Looking for eagles. I think it was too hazy, too late in the season, and much too warm.

There was a rotting dead fish by the boat launch. Just sayin'. Nature was everywhere. Just stand there and sniff and enjoy the freshness of it all.

Mimosas were on the menu for brunch. Why is it that whenever I order a mimosa out, they put it in an oversized glass which they then fill with ice? Hello? It's champagne, dammit, not vodka. Give me a smaller glass and don't water down my drink. I do NOT want ice with that.

Geez.

It was so nice to be out and about and see people dressed for the occassion of the day. Except one young woman who was wearing an oversized shirt as a dress. I couldn't confirm it, but I hope she was wearing underwear. Carnivale is over.

I made some devilled eggs with some of those we dyed yesterday. I find it unappetizing when the dye seeps through the shell and turns the egg off colors. I put them on the bunny egg plate. Then proceed to stomp around the house killing far too many carpenter ants. They're invading my space and I'm not happy about it. I was inspired to do some serious vacuuming and cleaning up in the kitchen. I've been sort of ... lax lately.

Where was I? Uhm, chocolate? Yes, please. Time to crack open that big-ass chocolate-flavored egg I got this morning. I can hardly wait.

Happy Easter.

Back On The Horse

Time to get back on the horse and get back up to date. The Equinox is upon us and the prospect of even longer days looms bright and hopeful.


My son turned 10 a week ago today. A lot has happened to him in the past few weeks. Reaching the decade mark, getting braces, moving up a size in pants so it doesn't look like he's waiting for the flood, making maple syrup from the trees in our yard. He's a "big" kid. Nearly a young man, but not quite. Yet.

It's hard for the mother of an only child to see this happen. To want to see your child thrive and grow and develop, but to have to let go of that small, sweet, dependent creature for one who's already on his way to leaving the nest.

And then he does something like stop you in the hallway, throw his arms around you and whisper "I love you." It's like to break a mother's heart.

I love this time of year when the earth is waking, and warming air invites you to open as many windows and doors as possible. My little garden in front of the house has it's own micro-climate. My crocuses (croci?) have been up for weeks and are on their last legs. The daffodils are starting to make their entrances.

This is when I get motivated to grow pretty things. It doesn't last long. Usually about five minutes of raking or digging or weeding is enough to break me of the desire. Frankly, I'd rather be in the kitchen cooking. Out in the fresh air equals a nice walk or sitting in a shady spot with a good book.

I welcome Spring. Like the Who's who welcome Christmas. This year I will welcome Spring by taking down the last of my outdoor Christmas lights. It's time. The snow is truly gone - at least for now. Make hay while the sun shines, right?

And Happy Birthday my sweet, wonderful boy. I love you too.

Snow Day

After a few inches of snow the night before last, followed by a clearing of the snow yesterday morning, we had about another inch last night which required additional clearing efforts.


We have a slightly inclined gravel/dirt driveway that freezes into a solid sheet of ice if given half a chance, or if only slightly neglected.

So out we went again today. Being Sunday, it wasn't really a "snow day" in the technical "no school" sense. Nor did we have to rush out early so that we could extricate ourselves to get to work. Which we wouldn't have done anyway since we both work at home. That would only have been necessary had we been out of coffee. A state of being which I do my best to avoid.

But snow clearing was hampered by The Boy having a one-way snowball fight with whomever was close enough to hit from behind the safety of the bushes. Usually that was me, and he had an uncanny knack of landing them on my head. Not pretty for a frizzy-haired goddess such as myself.

But I got even. And he'll never forget to zip his jacket all the way up again.

Our back yard has a section that goes downhill all of sudden. And stops just as suddenly at a stone wall. We successfully used our little hill for sledding. Or, in my case, wiping out and rolling down the hill caked in snow. Snow, which by the way, was freakin' cold. The Boy thought it was hilarious.

We enjoyed our bright sunny snow day.

In spite of the fact that I didn't get a hot toddy out of it.

Shanties

In spite of the need to clear cars and shovel snow, in a futile effort to make room for more, we ventured out this afternoon to a sea shanty singalong. This appears to have become an annual event at Mystic Seaport in Mystic, CT.

It's not the obvious family outing, but The Boy discovered the joys of shanties, better known as chanties, via a few cd's we had purchased at the Seaport years ago. We got those cds home and promptly put them in a safe place never to see the light of day again.

Until about a year and a half ago. While on vacation. Out they came. The peace in my head may never be restored.

Be that as it may, those shanty/chanties are catchy little ditties. Long after you've ripped the last hair from your head, they are still frolicking in your brain and driving you to drink. Which may explain the rampant alcoholism is sailors. It wasn't boredom; it was the damn songs.

And yet, The Boy loves those songs. So, because I'm such an awesome parent, when I saw the email from the Seaport, I forwarded it to The Husband with the note that I thought The Boy would enjoy it. The tweet read: "Warm up inside at our Pub Sing & Chantey Blast today from 1-5 p.m. It only happens once a year - don't miss it!"

What the hell. How bad could it be? And if it was awful, they serve beer, right? Right.

But then I did a terrible thing. I forgot about it. Well, that's not entirely accurate. I didn't actually forget about. I just didn't read the flyer very well and thought that the event was in the evening. So I got The Boy home later than I would have from his morning obligations had I remembered.

It's my fatal flaw.

Well, one of them, anyway.

We went. We arrived around 3:30. The room was crowded so we stood for awile. There was beer to be had, but alas, not for me. Some of the music was rollicking, which had The Boy thumping his snow boot in time to the music. Chairs opened up and we sat. I became aware that this was more a communal activity than a concert. Again, if I had read the information, I might have had a clue. Members of the audience piped up with the song of their choice once the applause from the previous song died down. Unless one of the organizers had an announcement to make. There were several such interruptions. They were really quite annoying.

Everybody sang. And it didn't matter if you didn't know the song, because the songs went on forever, the chorus was always the same, and you could just join in once you figured it out. Which we did. Because it was way better than just sitting there without a beer. And, I must confess, it was exciting to hear a room full of people join in and harmonize. It's a spontaneous sound you don't really hear in the his country. Outside of a church.

Eventually, The Boy screwed up the courage to lead a shanty. Until the organizer interrupted him with an announcement just as he started. He's 9; he hasn't learned to project yet. FINALLY (because she took for freakin' ever), one of the other organizers, and an amazing singer in his own right, got everyone to listen to The Boy lead his song. We joined in with gusto on the chorus, while he kept the beat with his snow-booted foot. He did really well (I'm not biased here) and felt really good about it. I have to give him a lot of credit.

We stayed until the end and stopped for really good barbeque on the way home. We made it home well before the snow started again. And now I'm fairly certain that shanties will be the order of the day in the car for weeks to come.

Anyone know a good wigmaker?